ESCORTING VS MUTUALLY BENEFICIAL DATING (SUGAR DATING)
Misconceptions and the Media
It’s unfortunate how many misinformed individuals still look to Sugar Babies as if they’re finding a loophole to establish financial gain from illegal activities. The fact that the Sugaring lifestyle is viewed negatively is holding men and women away from enjoying the many perks including companionship and financial stability which come from a mutually beneficial relationship.
It is my intention to debunk the myths so more people can get the most out of their dating and relationships. Escorts’ recent rise in the news is partially due to many Escort agencies attempting to cover their illegal services under the veil of Sugar Dating.
Why Not Escort?
Some Escort agencies shrewdly mimic dating websites, having you create an account to set up “dates” with these ladies of the night. But sexual gratification is the goal 100% of the time and money is the means at that same rate. The easiest way to discern from one is to only use mainstream dating services like Rich Meet Beautiful or Victoria Milan.
The biggest difference here is that these Escorts are illegal sex workers who cater to a sex-seeking client. Prostitutes are often forced into the work for little money and no benefits.
They must work in unsafe conditions at the risk of being arrested or worse, hurt or killed by their clients. They have no prospects for raises, or retirement, and even if they’re arrested they often turn back to prostitution since they don’t know any other options.
Ordering an escort is risky and supports an oppressive and dangerous cycle.
Once sex workers experience the income associated with this kind of job, any other legally obtained job they have the qualifications for will likely give them significantly less money at a much slower rate, AND they must pay taxes on the money. It’s hard if not completely unlikely that they will move on and grow as they greet their bleak future.
Escorts VS Sugar Babies - What’s The Difference?
Escorting Escort (n.) -A sex worker paid by the hour, usually for sex or acts of physical intimacy. See also: prostitute, gigolo, hooker, call girl, fille de joie, etc.
A Transaction - A business transaction in which a customer receives sexual services from a prostitute in exchange for monetary compensation. Once the transaction is complete, the exchange and communication end.
The transaction lasts an pre-set amount of time
The transactions between escort and clients continue repeatedly, and indefinitely, as the escort is solely relying on these exchanges to support their life.
Who is an escort?
Call girls (or boys) vary vastly in age and in financial rank. Often times young girls and women are forced into sex slavery or coerced by lack of other job options.
How much $$$ do they make?
A low end prostitute could make less than $20 for a less invasive sex act, where as a high end call girl could make several thousand dollars to spend an evening with a customer. The money is paid either to the escort, their agency, or to a pimp ahead of time.
Where does escorting happen?
Escorting is illegal so the escort and prostitute communicate through an online source, in person, or using burner phones. They either meet at an agreed upon location(ie. Brothel, motel, in a car) or travel there together.
Sugaring Sugar Baby (n.)-Usually a young woman who dates older, successful men, where companionship is exchanged for mentorship and sometimes monetary gain.
A Relationship - A modern take on a romantic relationship in which both partners are upfront about what they have to offer a partner and what they needs. Both partners enjoy the companionship, while the SP gets to feel needed and the SB gets to experience security. Beneficial for all!
The relationship can be brief and casual or could result in a lifelong marriage, just depending on how the couple clicks.
SBs might date an SP exclusively or they can choose a more open relationship. The main point is that in this kind of relationship, everything’s on the table, and neither partner is lying about their intentions. Sugar Babies are hardworking and often use any sugar they receive as supplemental income, investments toward future endeavors, or “fun money” in addition to what they make at their job.
Who is a Sugar Baby?
A young woman or man who is attractive, ambitious, and goal-oriented.
How much $$$ do they make?
The sugar an SB sometimes receives could range from dinner or phone bill anywhere to a couple thousand dollars for rent, or an all expenses paid vacation with their SP. SBs also enjoy the business contacts and advice their successful partners hold.
Where do Sugar Dates happen?
Sugar dating IS dating, therefore dates will vary as much as the couples do. It could be anything from coffee, yoga classes, dinner and movie, a ski trip, or even a quickie in the bedroom. The dates are diverse and depend on the couple.
In contrast to Escorts, a Sugar Baby freely chooses, in no certain terms, only to go out with men she has a genuine connection with. There isn’t a certain price to get her to do what you’d like, but rather, the payment is to help her life run more smoothly in hopes she’ll be happier and better equipped to navigate your busy schedule.
Sugar Babies tend to meet their Sugar Parents on dating websites such as Rich Meet Beautiful, where they are able to be discreet and safe while easily finding SPs who seek the same type of mutually beneficial relationship.
A Sugar Baby will most likely move on to pursue her academic or career goals and will leave her Sweet Life behind for something more long term, while an Escort is usually only working their job for lack of skills to get her doing something easier and significantly more legal. She has no career goals, save, potentially starting her own Escort Agency.
It is difficult, if not impossible, to move to a straight-and-narrow occupation without being unsatisfied with your paychecks without rehabilitation and education for these unfortunate young men and women.
Not only is Escort work incredibly risky physically, emotionally, and legally, it also yields no room for growth or a future. While some women of the night will make it through unharmed physically, the psychological damage the cycle causes can be life-long.